[dropcap]O[/dropcap]k. Maybe that’s a bit extreme. But have you ever been surprised how much “stuff” you own? Minimalism is easy when you’re a couple, but add children to the mix and your “Stuff Quotient” soars. Strollers, highchairs, stair-gates and outgrown apparel populate the shadows of the basement or gather dust in the attic. With children, comes a move to a bigger place, perhaps with a garden, and suddenly you have “outdoor stuff” too – mowers, blowers, trimmers and garden furniture. There’s an urge to fill the new living space with more “stuff” that somehow represents and defines you – your beliefs, your personality, your memories.
Some are born minimalist, some achieve minimalism and some have minimalism thrust upon them… we fell into the latter category when we moved to Canada. Read the full story in my column over at Expat Focus.
We emigrated 24 years ago and are well past the “decluttered” stage. Now we are considering moving again, we are desperately trying to relieve ourselves of mountains of what I call “junk” but what my husband calls “we might need it one day”… !
Are you leaving Jamaica?
Maybe at some point, but I don’t know yet. We are also thinking about moving from the city to the country IN Jamaica… and that will require some clearing out. OR, it’s possible that we may just stay here, comfortably, with our clutter!!
All the best in whatever you decide – just be sure to keep up the blog 😉
Absolutely! Blogging is addictive, isn’t it! 🙂
Yes, but more than that, I’ve only just discovered your blog – would hate to have joined the party as it was over!
How true. We started our expat life with five suitcases and came back after five years with a whole house full of ‘stuff’…
…ready to start all over again! 🙂
Couldn’t possibly agree with you. The fact that my wardrobe doors won’t slide shut has nothing to do with clutter…
Love your header. Happy Easter!
Happy Easter to you too Johanna! Sounds like you need to move again! 😉
Expat life is a great minimaliser. I used to be clutter-mad but am now a minimalist-maniac. I think I’m always sub-consciously preparing for that next big ‘move’.
By the way, pray tell me why I can no longer comment using my blog URL and have to always log on with Twitter. Is it because I don’t have a WordPress account? It’s happening on all WordPress blogs 🙁
It really cements the fact that we don’t need half the stuff we cart about with us, doesn’t it! Once you live without it for a while you really don’t want it back in your life. I had a look on the wordpress support forum and didn’t see anything pertaining to the problem you mention, so I’ll drop them a message querying it. Sorry for the inconvenience in the meantime.
Your article and the fact that I’m in the process of decluttering for a flea market inspired to write a blog post about it. I’ve linked up to your article.
Excellent! Spread the minimalist message!
Don’t make me move over there!
Pack yer bags, Missus! (but only two, mind!) 😉
I’m considering moving country (again) and given that I have thrown away countless boxes worth of stuff every time I moved country before (four times so far!), I am still surprised at how much stuff can still be discarded.
Why do we have a penchant for collecting things that we wouldn’t take with us anyway?
In today’s world we seem to see our stuff as a reflection of who we are. If you see an item you admire, you acquire it in the hope that people admire you for your acquisition!
or we just love stuff to make us smell nice (too many perfumes and body lotions and we get gifts) to make us pretty….lots of colors in makeup…blushers, eye shadows, liners for eys and lips, to match with our clothes) for us or for being attractive to ourselves or or partners; oh yeah jewellery : how many bracelets can we wear at once and of course we have to match: who has the time…less is better if you want to control your living space….whose to judge anyways….it’s your space , your wellness….