That Laugh

Poison

 

It was the laugh that did it.

It made the hairs prickle on the back of my neck and told my seven-year-old sensibilities something wasn’t right. I heard it often growing up and it was always a signal that things were headed in a bad direction, eliciting a Pavlovian unease deep within me whenever its duplicitous joviality filled the air.

It was lunchtime. On the farm we took our main meal in the middle of the day, the hard physical labor demanded substantial re-fuelling the likes of which a sandwich or plate of cold-cuts couldn’t deliver. The kitchen was warm and welcoming; the stove, nestled in her alcove gently heating the bottoms of the two huge steel kettles that lived on her hotplate, circulated the aroma of a hearty cooked meal like a binding promise. I eyed the door to the oven suspiciously – the memory of my mother’s explosive attempt at rice pudding still vivid, the alarming BANG mid-meal the siren of a surprise gone wrong. I needn’t have worried. Today’s meal would be marked by an outburst of a different nature.

I took my place next to my father at the rectangular pine table that abutted the wall, fingertips braille-reading the scarred yellowed surface while I waited for my plate to be put in front of me. The scent of the outdoors still clung to his overalls and made me eager for the meal to be over so I could run out and play. I swung my legs impatiently beneath the table.

My mother laid our plates before us and sat down opposite me to eat. Quiet ensued as we blunted our hunger. I watched condensation fog the inside of the window-pane behind her as I chewed and swallowed. Comments were exchanged but I wasn’t listening – I was thinking of exploring the mound up by the paddock and visualizing the path I would take to scale it. I took no notice of the adult conversation until loud laughter brought me back to the table. I thought I’d missed a joke but the dialogue seemed at odds with the levity.

Oddly high-pitched and mirthless, my father smilingly cajoled my mother to confess to poisoning his food.

“Why won’t you just admit it?” he wheedled with a forced geniality that seemed out of sync with his line of questioning. Like someone wearing headphones, every utterance was abnormally loud.

“I know there’s something in it. Just tell me. What did you put in it?”

As I waited for the punchline that never came I was suddenly, brutally aware I was sitting next to a man I didn’t know. I didn’t need to look at him to know a stranger had usurped his body, indeed I intuitively kept my gaze fixed on my dinner plate. An animal instinct told me it was best to be invisible. His behavior was artificial; a saccharine coating, intended to mask something sinister, like the banana-flavored medicine with the nasty aftertaste I had when I got chickenpox. My mother kept her tone light insisting she had no idea what he was talking about but still the atmosphere was uncomfortable, even to a child – the air heavy with tension the way it is when a thunderstorm approaches. I was glad when the meal was over and I could escape. I played on the mound all afternoon until it grew dark and I had no choice but to go inside for tea. I didn’t know it then, but I’d had my first significant brush with mental illness.

Incidents like this one, and the day the shotguns disappeared from the cloakroom were just some of the many clues that my world would come crashing down. One minute they were there where they’d always been, muzzles propped against the wall, standing neatly in line with the wellington boots, the next – gone. It was my first indication that the things I thought solid and unchanging in my life weren’t immutable.

My mother told me years later of the events that prompted her to hand them in to the Garda for safekeeping. The strange goings-on my child’s radar had picked up were just the tip of the iceberg, but it would be a long time before the term Manic Depression was used to explain them to me.

 

 

7 Comments

  1. I guess the Garda are the police.
    An apparently harmless sentence, or choosing one word in place of another, are all things which can be revealing.
    As the Germans say, “the Devil is the details.”

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  2. Powerful indeed – I loved the stove was female, the heart of the home.

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  3. Your writing is incredibly evocative; it reminded me that children always know – even if they don’t know the words..

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    • This is true. I remember watching Mary Poppins for the first time aged nine and being certain that the Bank’s neighhbour, Admiral Boom (remember? had a house shaped like a boat, a ships wheel on his roof and fired his cannon to mark the time) was suffering some sort of mental illness ;-)

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      • I think he was just old, retired and missing being at sea. :-)

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